“Life is two times.” (“Life is two terms.”)

I grew up in the village with my grand parents during my teen years. Back then, life, though beautiful and simpler could be hard and grueling. Folks, it was a rustic village life then. I can recall hearing my paternal grandmother time and again in our local dialect that “Life is two times.” That is the exact translation of what my granny used to say to me then. Even though the rendering sounds too colloquial (I can find no better way of translating it. Just forgive me. I am not a linguist), the meaning of that expression will be immediately understood by the users of my native dialect.  She also used to tell me that, “If you are going to the land of departed spirits (paradise), don’t forget those who are still on planet earth” struggling to eke out their daily existence. She has been late these past many years now, but her loving care and many profound words of wisdom still remain with me, intact.

Now what does this tell me in practical terms and on a day-by-day basis?
That; if you are oppotuned to find yourself in America and all the other man-made paradises of this planet earth, you must not forget about the rest of us left behind in this man-made (or polticians-made) hell of a chequered Nigeria. That, if you are opportuned to climb to the top of the ladder that your forbears laboured to lay on the wall to ease the way to your success, you don’t remove or break the ladder when you reach the top. That,  God lifted you up so that you can lift up and enrich the life of others. Do not frustrate them. Do not let your folks down on that trust. After all, who really knows tomorrow? And so on and so forth…..

I have even come to personally discover that life here on earth could be two, three or four times (or terms). Litterally. I don’t mean death and resurrection now. Of course,  I believe in death and resurrection.

Don’t just give up hope.

I have not and may never meet any of the subjects in the series of pictures shown below. (The pictures are all belonging to their copyright owners). I am sure you even have better shots that are more suited for the collection. You will be forgiven if you don’t recognize the main subject at first. Just keep on scrolling. It doesn’t matter which side of the political divide you are on, ensure that the morale of this story doesn’t slip through the fingers of your busy thoughts. At the end,  you will see the irreducible wisdom embeded in my late granny’s  witty words.

Be careful how you despise, undermine, humiliate, size-up and write-off the underdogs today. Underdogs do at times become topdogs. Tomorrow, though seemingly right-at-hand, is still too far. God Almighty is an expert at turning situations around. He can and He will turn your life around (the same way, He turned mine around) because, He is Jehovah Almighty and He has the final say. Always.










the semicolon project


FullSizeRender-1FullSizeRender Today I went to a tattoo artist, and for $60 I let a man with a giant Jesus-tattoo on his head ink a semi-colon onto my wrist where it will stay until the day I die. By now, enough people have started asking questions that it made sense for me to start talking, and talking about things that aren’t particularly easy.

We’ll start here: a semi-colon is a place in a sentence where the author has the decision to stop with a period, but chooses not to. A semi-colon is a reminder to pause and then keep going. 

In April I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. By the beginning of May I was popping anti-depressents every morning with a breakfast I could barely stomach. In June, I had to leave a job I’d wanted since I first set foot on this campus as an incoming freshmen because of my mental…

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Those your friends; fear them.


“Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?”

Abraham Lincoln (1809 – 1865)

Fear your enemies?
Do you really know them?
Ok. Now that you’ve know them,
Are they still your enemies?

No you don’t have to fear your enemies. Fear those your friends. A hoard of them, so-called, are unrepentantly implacable (even though unprovoked)  enemies. Those your friends, fear them.
And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household.
Matthew 10:36



“It had never occurred to me before that when salvation enters a life, selfishness must leave because selfishness is sin.”


Me, Myself and I used to be a well used statement and as I think about it,  it has to be the height of selfishness. Not long ago I heard a message on salvation and selfishness. It had never occurred to me before that when salvation enters a life, selfishness must leave because selfishness is sin.

That makes perfect sense to me now. Salvation means having Christ as the center of my life. Selfishness means I am at the center of my life which brings with it greed, self-righteousness, pride and a host of other selfish characteristics.

One of the times when I was at my most selfish was when our five children were all seven and younger. It was during a church service in our very small church and I ended up in the tiny nursery, a room with a variety of well-used toys and out of hearing of the message. I looked around…

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Are we not brothers?

… I repeat, like I was saying before, what is good for me is also good for my brother. And, what is good for your brother is equally good for my brother.
The realization of this simple fact will cure more than 75% of the human-ills on planet earth. OK? Go ahead and disprove me.
(Willy & Evo are first cousins, over one year apart by birthday.)